I don't think necessity is the mother of invention. Invention, in my opinion, arises directly from idleness, possibly also from laziness - to save one

The weather is here; wish you were beautiful.

My friend Changfu

My Last dinner with Family on This Winter Vacation~
i dined out with my cousins and parents for my departure for Korea. Good times is always short and irreversible.

My Last Dinner On This Vacation

My Cousin and I Having Fun ^-^

In the afternoon i called changfu to come to my home for fixing my computer and saying goodbye. he was one of my true friends. from the conversation of him i could tell he got a really pure clean soul and heart. i love it. he would go for job interview in Dalian on the evening train today. as the Shakespeare said, departure is the sweetest sorrow! i said goodbye to my last friend at home.

The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing - and then marry him.

Be Ready to Go Back to School~

today i packed my luggage for leaving home for Korea. i had too many stuff to carry so i had to take off some of my babies reluctantly. actually most of the space was taken up by presents for my friends there. about 1 hour later i was almost done with the packing stuff and beginning to play with my baby chickens. they kept crying even in the night if put them alone. from my experience , i stopped them crying by putting them in a small bag, where they could lean on each other and take a rest. they were alive and kicking the whole day . one of them even flied over the top of the box. they must be tired of the life in box, so i put them in the flower pot, where they were bobbing around the flower curiously~bathing in the warm sunshine

Baby chickens~ chick chick chick

I Love Lovely , Fluffy Baby Chickens~ and 2day i bought a 3iple!
At the approach of my going back to Korea, i went out for shopping with my mom this afternoon. it was windy and cold outside until i heard some familiar noise which sounded like baby chicken's, i was in a fever to play with small chickens. in front of the shang building, a box of colorful baby chickens came to my eye and i was frozen there and could not wait one second to take money out to buy three of them. despite of my mom's strong object, i chose the liveliest three of them.
i put them in the plastic bag and kept them from the cold wind with my bare hands. i did not shopping much but could not wait to take my babies home. on the whole way back they were crying and crying for some food and some heat. i fastened my pace back home and made a snug home out of a box. i even put a heater in the box to give some warmth to these little creatures. they are round fluffy babies.
i would like to take them to Korea if they could get visas~

Bride and Groom

An old friend came back home from Beijing for the new life which is married life~
Today i was a little low mood and my mom liked to grub salt on the wound, which made me gloomy the whole day until the evening came to clear up the gloom. i received a call from changfu and he said yinghua and her husband came. the news did not cheer me up until i saw them after my long struggle home.
they were waiting for me in the dongmei restaurant and when i arrived there i was two hours late already. i apologized to them and said a late happy new year to this new couple. actually the came for the marriage certificate. they came hastily and they would go in this night train at 11 pm. yinghua was one of my primary school friends. she is a nice girl who found a nice man.
we chatted and laughed and sang and spent a very short but happy time together.
and at 11pm we saw them off in the train for Beijing.
BEST WISHES FOR THIS NEW COUPLE!

At every party there are two kinds of people -- those who want to go home and those who don't. The trouble is, they are usually married to each other.

my new friend sude, and my cousin gukhua




A Brand New Sister~
From yesterday, daddy and mommy were busy in preparing for a visitor i had seen once only.
i was not caring so much about this new comer until she really came. in the afternoon, i woke up lazily from last night's late work. feeling sorry for letting my mom alone going for some vegetables for dinner feast, i forced myself to go drag my heavy body to accompany her along the street. it was really cold these days even though the spring has arrived in the lunar calendar. despise the low temperature i walked my mom from this side to that side then walk back on the same track, inhaling some fresh air and buying 4 cucumbers on the way back. my cousin called my mom when we were almost home, she said she was hanging outside because no one answered the doorbell. red from cold, my cousin could be seen not far ahead at the corner. she was selling jewelry at an counter of a building in our town. curiously she was asking about the mysterious visitor to our home i had no idea. the mysterious was not veiled until my daddy introduced her to us. a lovely girl who benefited from my daddy and could work in a hospital as her job,earning her living.

my cousin




mom cooked several dishes of meat and vegetables and we enjoyed a lot from the pleasant dinner. she was a nice, pleasant lovely girl, with a charming voice.
and after dinner i made apple milkshake for everyone, out of polite they drunk it up.^-^ i love milk shake

heavy snow for the coming lover's day

Snow fairy flied down for The Valentine's Day!

Yesterday night was the masterpiece of nature.i fell into sleep with the snow floweres came silently down on earth. as usual my mom dragged me out of my weird dream about money, i woke up around 10 am and not knowing the outside world. my mom called someone and from their talk i knew there was a heavy snow covering in the northeast of china. all of suddern i was excied and could not wait to go outside. i dressed up simply and went out with mom for the fresh air and big snow view. my head was cleared up with the opening of the door, everywhere was filed up with snow dump and it seemed that winter was here again.

my mom the road was already cleaned up by workers but the trees were still on the silvery white coat. it seemed the time ticked back to the beginning of last winter, which confused me from time to time. was i on the travel to the past with the time machine? i wish~ i wish i were a bady now. sucking bottle, crying , laughing and as pure as the white snow in the memory chip. the newborn babies are busy digging the reality and the cruel truth with fun and curiosity.

tomorrow was valentine's day , the commercial businessmen are busy making big money out of this romantic day. rose was always the queen.

情人节其实可短暂了，手一拉一松，一个情人没了，嚎~？手再一拉不松，变老婆了，嚎~？情人节最痛苦的事儿是啥？知道嘛，就是“过节了，礼物没准备！”情人节最最痛苦的事儿是啥？知道嘛，就是“礼物准备了，没情人过节”@_@

new hairstyle

my daddy went to Shenyang for business , and my mom and i were having fun home everyday. mom fed me with all kinds of meat like black chicken, beef and pork for every meal. then it came to my responsibility to eat them up and rest. most of the time i played computer game and if i was tired from sitting too long in front of computer i would turn in bed. also mom and i enjoyed watching the same Korea series named"the seduce of wife"
in the afternoon, after a short nap i peered into the mirror for one second and all of sudden an idea came to me. i took up a scissor and began to cut my front hair. cutting hair by myself was kind of hobby for me since i was a baby. breathe lightly and very carefully, i took my hair. it took me half an hour to finish it. i was sweating a lot for the nervous out of cutting hair by myself.
my mom said i looked better than before with the new hairstyle and i could not agree more. i thought i should open a hair shop^-^!
but all of sudden i thought i looked like the bad woman in "the seduce of wife" LOL~

Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds...

Shake Up the Moon!
Today is another big day after the Chinese spring festival ,full moon eclipse. As another traditional festival in china, people all over china would celebrate by playing fireworks loudly. there is a legend about this day. it is said on this day people play fireworks to scare away the ghosts in their life. nowadays people hang out with family and friends in the evening to shake off the illness.

After a festival crab dinner, mom and i went out. because of the surgery on my neck, i was carefully armed to teeth in case of accident. my daddy caught cold and he would rather stay home to keep guard against the ghosts.
the town seemed to be shaking with the thundering sound of fireworks from everywhere. people was moving slowly in the street, shocked by the appalling fireworks.
it was magnificently gorgeous, sparkling. the dark sky was decorated with the picturesque view like daylight.
say hello, momthe moon was up in the sky, embracing the whole town gracefully.

old precious friends regained

this morning i received a call from my old college friends after 1 year. she said i disappeared all of sudden and i had to explain to her my situation of past one year. both of us were so happy about being in touch again after one year gulf. the big news about her was that she was pregnant for 3 months and it was twins . life was miracle. she and her husband umar were going back to Pakistan tomorrow and would be back on march then she would go back to united states for the babies. so we could meet again in a thousand years.
anyway, getting their information was my most exciting thing since my last excitement.
best wishes for them and a safe trip!

I don't deserve this award, but I have arthritis and I don't deserve that either

i did nothing but sleep.

my vacation is full of sleepiness.
i had pineapple juice. it was awesome.

fussing? no it is painful

today was a big day for me. my daddy took me to the hospital for the little thing under my left ear. at first i did not think it was a problem but my daddy insisted so i went along with him. in the first hospital, the doctor who was my father' s friend said it should be cut off instead of being done by the lens. i was scared by the unexpected news. both my daddy and i thought it could be erased by the lens. my god, i never thought at the beginning of this new year i should do such new thing on my head. i could not accept the truth so my daddy suggested me go another hospital where another friend was working. we went there with hope but the hope was dead when the doctor told us it should be cut off by knife which meant it was a surgery. the anaesthetic process was so painful that i almost cried out. then the cut off process was numb, i could feel nothing but hearing the sound of cutting my flesh. the whole process was less than 20 minutes but it was forever for me.
the rest of my day i was spending in my bed and being taken care by my mother very carefully. i could not laugh or eat hard because it would be painful. in the afternoon, my cousin came to my home. she was going to
">Beijing tonight 11 pm so she would have dinner in my home and waiting for the train time. she was shocked at the view of my face. "what happened? " i told her i took surgery and it was hurt. she was sorry for me and i was sorry for myself. but my mom said i was fussing about it, which upset me a lot.
it was painful and it would take at least one week.

this is my cousin yanhong

staying home alone with history book

my mom and daddy went to my grandmother's home and i chose to be home alone.

i love to stay alone doing whatever i like.

i focused on the chinese history book .

home alone with myself stuck in my room with some dolls

sending fax to kookmin university in korea

i have tried many ways to save money and energy for the scholarship matter, yet haste makes waste and my labour was in vain.
i felt like distributing my work to others but most of the times it turned out to be me alone finishing the work. no one could actually give help.
i went to changfu's home for the fax matter, and this time was good. no error and successfully sending the fax to Korea.
after that i invited him for a while of coffee and a thanksgiving dinner. as an old friend he deserve my seldom generous dinner for him. we had hotpot for dinner and we had a pleasant talk through the whole afternoon. we were friends since primary school until university. so it was deep and stable friendship. he was very kind hearted and good personality just as i am.*-*
my mom and daddy went to my grandmother's home and came back as soon as i came home. i do not like to visit anyone anywhere else but staying home lazily. like a worm in its snug shell~

this is my friend zhao changfu

look farmiliar?

today my good college friend visited me with 100 sticky rice cookies home made , which brought brightness to our shady home.
his name was Hou ke jian who is one of my best friends and brother. he could go directly to Changchun where he worked but for my appetite, despite of the long way he came to my home for the first time. the nature of hospitality from my parents could not help treat him warmly. my mom prepared fish soup for him and my daddy just continue to talk highly. kejian was also very talkative and they were becoming very close to each other in a short time and they thought they looked farmiliar to each other.
i am very grateful for him to come to my home and i saw him off in the afternoon on the bus for Changchun.

mydoll: old friendship forever in this new year

mydoll: old friendship forever in this new year