There is no difference between a wise man and a fool when they fall in love

I was shocked by sehua's one night experience with another man who was not her boy friend but only a normal friend. not even getting out of the torture from the exboyfriend, she was jumping into another one. it was good beginning before the one night man slept with her and not contact her untill now. they were close friends but now it was out of the circle of friendship but not lover zone. it was ambassard situation for both of them. everyday sehua was waiting for the playboy's message and call but the phone seemed to be broken or dumbstruck.
I think there is no suffering greater than what is caused by the doubts of those who want to believe. I know what torment this is, but I can only see it, in myself anyway, as a process by which faith is deepended. A faith that just accepts is a child's faith and all right for children, but eventually you have to grow religiously as every other way, though some never do. What people dont realize is how much religion costs. They think faith is a big electric blanket, when of course it is a cross. It is much harder to believe than not to believe. If you feel you can't believe, you must at least do this: keep an open mind. Keep it open toward faith, keep wanting it , keep asking for it, and leave the rest to God. Don't expect faith to clear everything up for you. Faith is trust, not certainty.